There is nothing essentially off-course with the female’s desire to find an affluent man. You might hear the opposing opinions like this is so conservative and backward as far as our modern times are in question, but biology as the core of your being must be telling you that something is intrinsically wrong with those public voices. You should never feel ashamed of your biology, and this same biology is leading you to dream about the man who will protect and provide for you.
The bigger picture
And while you are trying to navigate between emotionally unavailable, cheating, unemployed, or simply shady men, you should know that this world is full of highly educated, nice, polite and very successful bachelors and lots of those who are striving to become exactly like that.
Even your age or financial status doesn’t matter here, because those men don’t mind to be with the woman who makes way smaller incomes then they do, and they belong to different age categories for sure. So, the fact that you are no longer in your twenties, rather in your fifties, and you have few children of your own, won’t mean that you don’t have the slightest chance to create the total makeover of your life.
You could be younger or older, with children and pets or not, you will still be able the find the perfect man to match your desires. And you would surely be surprised how many of them are there in the “open” desperately searching for that one special lady.
Again, leave the modern or usual public opinion on the side and finally start being proud of your plans to lead the financially secured life garnished by the lovely home, free from daily worries and ensured when it comes to the education of your children.
For too long now, women have been taught to be free caregivers, free sex givers, free mothers and especially free psychiatrists to the men who were parasiting due to our modern equality theories. And those same theories have led this western civilization to the edge of distinction and filled with ruined marriages, failed families and huge personal financial debts.
If you are at your younger age, you should think about those words a bit more, and if you are older, then you are perfectly clear what the proper path in life is by now. So, please read on.
In the rich man’s world
The differences between rich and poor are obvious. Rich are better educated than poor, but this is not their prevalent characteristic. There are so many rich men who have started their voyage without the day spent in college. The real differences can be seen through rich people’s discipline and ability to create plans and stick to them, using that same discipline. Everything else comes second, like the affinity to fine lifestyle, additional education and of course, the legacy for the future generations.
Therefore, your first task to become closer to the rich men’s world is not to spend your last dime on some branded item but to incorporate daily discipline and start planning your future. This means that you should declutter your home and your working space immediately. At the same time, try to get rid of your old clothes, shoes, and bags which are all resembling poverty.
Have in mind that rich men seek for a real lady, which means that your appearance has to be neat and in style. Not according to the current fashion, but according to your body and sense of feminine beauty. In this regard, get rid of your leggings, yoga pants, huge T-shirts, sloppy sweaters, and ugly slippers or flip flops, and keep just those you are using for sports. In any case, don’t wear them on other occasions.
Your goal is to have a perfectly organized closet filled with feminine clothes and this can even turn out to be great fun because all those items can be found exceptionally cheap in second-hand stores if you don’t have the means to buy in the high-end places.
Total makeover of your life
Incorporate the style on you and then in you, but at the same time be savvy and be smart. And the same goes for your makeup. Not too much, not too little, but with the proper measure and according to your face.
Now when you have organized your home, your closet and your appearance, try to make a plan on how to sculpt your body, improve your health and how to create financial security. If you don’t have the means for spending the time in the gym, use the free online resources to exercise daily and spend some time outside, under the Sun. Start taking care of your nutrition and, this is very important, start reading or listening to the best financial experts in this world how to get rid of debt and how to invest for your best future.
Once you start incorporating those daily tasks in your life, you will surprisingly find out that you don’t have the time to watch TV entertainment shows, because you can’t learn anything from those programs. And also, you will discover that you can’t longer stick to negative and energy-draining people. You will slowly, but surely change your social network and you will find out that the best people to hang with are those who can teach you something new and positive, and also, connect you to other affluent persons.
With this knowledge and discipline you have gained, your only task now is to find the proper location where you will get the chance to meet successful and affluent men. This location certainly won’t be the local pub or the local bowling alley, but if you choose archery or dancing classes, save some money to treat yourself with the fine cake in the expensive cake shop or five stars hotel, or volunteer during some charity event, your chances will jump sky high and you will look and behave exactly like successful men want their lady to be, and therefore you will be able to choose the best prospect for your carefree future.